Wednesday , January 20 2021

Telma Fardin pointed to those who doubted their complaint against Juan Darts: "It took me a lot to assume they raped me"



After her dramatic testimony yesterday, revealing she was raped Juan Darts during a tour with The ugly Duckling, Telma Fardin she turned to her Twitter account to deepen her feelings after a day being mobilized for her.

With a message that highlights the doubts and questions that are often posed to the women who condemn, and especially to her, the actress is pulling out with a series of tweets.

Subsequently, the applicant's posts:

"Thank you, you do not reach me, we will have to invent a word to exchange what I feel about what is happening … For now I say, THANK YOU that you have listened, you believe, and above all, that you keep making noise"

"You have to get rid of thousands of layers of fear, fear that you have no more work, be broken as something broken, be broken, see you as a woman second hand, as a victim, like a traumatized person, mark you as poor, like a liar, to be marked, to be marked rather "

"Because the first thing you obey is the doubt, the outside of the other." The word of the woman who accuses the man of having violated, we immediately doubt "

Do you want to be famous? "(Yes, of course, who does not want to become famous because he has taken it against their will?) There are even people who do not even dispute these statements."

"She may have seduced him," "I was walking alone at that time and this neighborhood," "She also watches her dress," "She's looking for him." "She". "She". Is she her? Really?

"It was hard for me to admit that I was raped, I did not use that word, it took me 9 years to call it his name, rape when you do not talk to him, he does not exist, and when he does not exist, it's only in your head … "

"… in your body, eat your conscience, self-esteem, power, gut"

"Since I have decided to take responsibility for what has happened to me, I can not stop feeling that I have to deal with, I need to know more about feminism, about laws, about psychology, about how society will react … "

"… I have to have strategies to be strong, to be a woman prepared, to acquire knowledge, as if only to report that I was raped is not something that I could put aside, as if to do this and leave a doubt that I have to have a doctorate at Harvard … "

"… with specialization in gender-based violence, I have to be more of a victim, because society, justice, opinion, everything in the face of doubt protects it, does not reach" my "truth, truth"

"See how he put me" is not the only phrase that this guy left me. "You'll always have a job, because wherever you go, you come with me," offering a tycoon tycoon. It was not enough to show me who is responsible, who has authority "

"He showed me the rules of the game, marking the territory for my career, my body, my confidence and my talent." For all, he lived in a moment of success: airplanes, stadiums with 20,000 people, five stars … "

"… girls who want to be like me and I'm locked in this trap, in this idea of ​​success"

"Today we are very and very trying to contribute something constructive by telling our story, not telling my story because it is unique, namely because it is not"

"I say it because even though I am afraid to expose myself to everything that comes to speak, I know that the price of silence is more expensive, do not shut up, eat me for a long time, destroy my self-esteem, my bonds and my safety at work . I speak "

"Because I spent deep inside my bones, I talk to pull it out of the body and put it on the table so it generates other things, I hope it generates awareness"

"I hope it will help if something like this happens to you, I hope it makes you wonder if they ever said" no, "but you insisted, I hope it will not happen to anyone else.


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