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Grandpa Pedophile for many years forced her granddaughter to have sex: "I first raped my mother"



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Years later a minor victim tries to get justice and put him in jail

… There was no wrinkled grass. He leaps out of the car radio. The sour smell of an old man. And nobody in tens of kilometers. Even after almost ten years – now Kate is 23, – I do not know how to ask her about the most humiliating one. But why should she be ashamed?

"We went to mushrooms … The grandfather took me alone with me. For two hours we walked separately in the woods, we put the buckets in the trunk. When they got into the car, he suddenly opened the doors on my side, started taking off my clothes … "

There was no one to protect her. There is no one to complain about. Kate was eight when some drunken youths killed her mother. This happened at New Year's Eve in 2005.

Then her childhood was over.

Blame yourself

After the death of her daughter, the care of three orphans – Katia, her older brother Kostya and her younger sister Nastia – were arranged by Grandma Luba.

The representatives of the social services who carried out patronage could not be happy: the children always have a neat appearance, no complaints, the family is full. Baba Lyuba and Grandpa Kolya. Children call grandmother Mom.

– Mom! cried Katya when Grandpa Cole raped her. "Grandpa, do not touch, I will tell my mother," after reading these words in the case, I could not find out who they belong to, I thought it was a piece of paper because Katja's mother died a long time ago …

"My mother, Katina's grandmother, Lyubov Mihaylovna, frankly, was quite weak in alcohol," says Sergey Lebedev, Catherine's Uncle. "On that basis, I think, after my father's death she agreed with Nikolay M. It was still in the 80's. My father-in-law bought me mothers of vodka, slowly spliced, although he rarely consume it at that time. "

Grandfather Nikolay Arefjevic was tall, sturdy in bones, hailing from the North Caucasus, saying he was from the Cossacks. As the head of the family, he worked with children, especially girls, and later became the only official guardian since his grandmother's health was upset. "Kate Zhaogannaya grew up. I saw that it was nothing, but when I came to visit, my stepmother forced her three grandchildren to watch TV and I could not talk to them, "Sergey continues.

From work Love Mihaylovna gave up. Payments of orphan guardians helped to keep on sailing. All arrivals and charges by household were controlled by grandfather.

Katya says that of these three grandparents did not offend just the younger granddaughter Nestya, which somehow resembled. And Katya was a minor servant. Garden – home – school.

"From my childhood, I was taught that I had to do something in the housework. Otherwise, they were punished, "recalls the girl.

As time went on, Katja began to think like this: if it was terrible, then it was for that reason. So she's guilty.

Why did the grandfather look kindly to the smaller Nastya? Katya did not know the answer to that question.

As soon as she gets her passport, she says her grandfather has begun to bother her. As a man to a woman.

Katya tried to complain to her grandmother, but she cursed her: you write everything! "Grandpa caught me on the chest, elsewhere … But my grandmother seemed to notice nothing."

"Why did not you escape, you did not write in custody, did you want to transfer to another foster family?" I wondered.

"Where to go? "she asked hopelessly. "I had no one closer than my grandfather and grandmother." She says that when she was punished, the worst threat was a promise to surrender her for bad behavior in an orphanage. It can not be worse than that. He even drank a grandmother, even a grandfather.

And then began the journey "for mushrooms" …

"Sexual acts happen once a month. First in the woods, then in an apartment in the city. I could not provide active resistance because it was much weaker in physical parameters. After that, once a week, "Katja told the investigators later.

Where was her power of will? I've never hit a rapist, I'm not biting, I follow him, obedient, like slaughter, according to my uncle, like a little dog after a master. After an unsuccessful attempt to share with her grandmother, Katya told no one what happened between her and her grandfather. What's the point? If no one believes or helps.

It is advisable to give advice on how to act, who has never been in this position. Ask the Khatchurian sisters why they were silent until they last and chose to kill. But there were three of them. And Katya is alone. Nestya's grandfather's grandfather did not touch.

Only Uncle Serija, the older brother of the mother, after three long years, Katya dared to tell about the regular violence. She was already 17.

Katia B survived a lot.

Revenge and Law

"Do you want it?" – "I burst into tears. Uncle Sergei wanted to go to the police. But I will be ashamed. All I wanted was to finish, Katya says.

"I suspect something like that," Sergey Lebedev shakes his head. – The fact is that Nikolay raped my sister Valentine, who was later murdered. I beat him over her other face … And he also harassed my older sister. And the younger sister Katina, Nastya, I suppose, is his own Valentina daughter. So he did not touch her. "

To prove the rape to have something to scare my grandfather, Uncle and Kate, according to their plan, they decided to shoot what was happening on the DVR they had purchased on purpose. He had to have time to settle in an urban apartment when his grandfather, as usual, brought Kate for comfort. Several times everything went wrong.

Finally, in September 2013, Katya secured the device close to the battery.

… the record went away.

A front carpet on the wall. A tall, tough old man dragging a girl in a red sweater on the couch. She collapsed and barely moved. 26 minutes cheap poor quality porn. He is naked, she is in unexpected touch of blue socks.

Of course, in terms of how violence should appear, as it usually appears in the movies, there was no action, no shouts, no battles, no drama. Everything is usually. In the background, the TV showed animated films. At the end of the process, Katia jumped from the old man, as if from a leper, and ran to the toilet.

"I really wanted to catch him in the act, so I agreed to everything," Katya exhales. "I hated my grandfather and feared as much as anyone in the world.

Lebedev vowed that he would not give evidence of the move, but that's why his grandfather had to go to his home country in the Dizhestan town of Kizilar forever. Leave your family alone. Sergei brought a video to Katya's grandmother. Mom took the knife. She said she could not live with it. After all, Nikolay has not slept with him for a long time, "recalls Sergei. "And with the kids, it turns out, everything has happened. I suspect he has met with my mother because the sister Valia is growing up in the house. "

In the morning Love Mihaylovna prepared her breakfast for her husband, as if nothing had happened. Such a husband is better than anyone, obviously, she estimated. If they set the grandfather, the money of the guardians would be withdrawn – with what shish to feed the orphans and themselves?

Sergei realized that there was nothing to hope for the mother's support. "Since Nikolay had no means to move, he told me he was selling his Chevrolet in 2011. I took a loan and bought him a 350,000 car, we signed a sale contract. I would do anything to get rid of him as soon as possible … I overwhelmed my mother's custody, made Nikolay give her a hundred thousand rubles of the money she had to repair the flat that looked like a bumper. "

On the eve of his grandfather's departure there was a fight. Nerves were at the limit. Lebedev says he did not want to beat, he came with a friend because he was afraid Nikolay would stand. At the height of the marriage couple they did not notice how they pressed the pensioner's chest with a knee to the floor …

Love Mikhailovna told the investigation that she found an old man on the bed. Tied hands and legs. Kate did not see anything like that.

Sergei took the stepmother to the hospital. The x-ray showed that his ribs were broken. The nearest train in early October 2013, Nikolay Arefjevic, left for Kizilar.

Meanwhile, Uncle Sereja tried to look after her niece. "We went to Ekaterinburg where I showed a video with my stepmother in the central ward. I guess I did it for nothing without thinking. Since the scandal began. My mother was immediately deprived of custody. They also did not believe my niece, they registered me to my older sister Lena. "

Hiding this was no longer possible. On January 20, 2014, the Investigation Department of the city of Rewda, the Department of Investigation, of the Russian Federation, Sverdlovskaya District of the Directorate General of the Ministry of Interior of Russia, for the same area of ​​Sverdlovsk, received materials for examination at the request of a specialist from the guardianship and custody department town of Revd Philonova KS

As representative of the State Philonova KS. announced that her beneficiary Catherine B. was raped. She asked Nicolas M, born in 1949, to face court. Video hooked.

From the interrogation of Nikolay Arepejevic.

question: "Tell me, did you have sexual contact with the ward?"

respond to: "No, he did not come in."

question: "How can you comment on the video?"

respond to: "I refuse to comment."

question: "Why have you been deprived of custody of Catherine B.?"

respond to: "I was forced to abandon the guardianship of Sergey Lebedev. (…) I was attacked, I lost consciousness. Sergey slipped me two sheets of paper and told me to write them off. One paper was in the car. And on the second sheet of paper, I do not know anything. I was lying tied two days until my wife Lyuba and Catherine came … "

In Klizlar, grandpa made an ultrasound scan that revealed that kidney and liver functions were impaired. He wrote a statement about the passion that attacked him …

In his testimony, Nikolay Arefjevic asked to clarify that sexual relations with his wife, Lyubov Mihaylovna, have not been maintained for 12 years – powerless because of the prostate adenoma.

Will Grandfather Nicolas be responsible for what he has done?

Sam guilty

Katya barely remembers details of the inquiry in the investigative department, as it was six years ago. But she was not given a psychologist as a minor.

The new custodian, Cathy, Aunt Lena, testifies that her grandfather has her been forced by her. And what really lives with the murdered Valentina, Katya's mother and Nastya.

"And the investigator told me that I myself provoked my grandfather. With everything that was filmed, we had a mutual desire. I was 17 years old, by law this is the age of consent. And the fact that I was raped by 14 is no longer possible to prove, "says the girl.

Her indications of "mushroom campaigns" were recorded, but only they did not make any legal assessment. Whether it was, there was not … Guardianship, which usually hurts a child enough to attract the guardian to justice, this time she is silent for some reason.

Katya trembled like a fever. In that she constantly reproached herself that there was not enough will to stop the violence, the investigator qualified herself in another way, placing it on the bookshelf: provoked, incited, tempted, seduced and also dropped porn. And the record – not violence but erotic games.

In addition, the review showed that Katya has long been a virgin, and her body has no traces of struggle for rape. And where would they come from if they have been in the record for almost half a year! How can I prove that Grandpa Kolya was against her will and the first?

Poor, slow, weakened, she signed all that she required: "Do not shut up anyone. I want to go home.

"I do not blame Katya, she did not understand what she was doing because she was given a sheet of paper for the reconciliation of the parties," complains Sergey Lebedev.

According to the materials of the investigation, the investigative department of the town of Revda refused to initiate a criminal case. What was the reason? Is it unwilling to dig in dirty linen? Not trusting the testimony of a girl or, on the contrary, believing his grandfather's words to be powerless? The rape of a minor, especially one that is directly dependent on the tyrant, is a serious article. There must be very important reasons not to take the case.

However, on expiration of the rape, on 19 February 2014, the investigative department in the city of Revada decided to refuse to initiate a criminal case on the grounds provided for in paragraph 2 of Part 1 of Article 1. 24 of the Penal Procedure Code of the Russian Federation – that is because of the absence of a crime. No one denied that sexual intercourse between Katia and grandfather was routinely conducted, but only with voluntary consent, that is, in love, the result so decided.

And he pleaded guilty … Uncle Sergeja. Because he defeated the stepmother and stole a Chevrolet car from him without paying that money … The primary savior has become the only defendant.

"My mother showed me to the police. Everything was recorded with her words. That I did not give money for the car I attacked my stepmother because of my personal dislike, "says Lebedev. "To be honest, she did not really need a man, I think he needed a bottle and a money. And I have deprived her of grandchildren's custody of monthly payments, and therefore I became an enemy. "

Katia says she does not remember what evidence she signed against Uncle Sereza. Say, uncle purposely forced the girl to remove sex with her grandfather, and then threatened to publish this video on the internet. For his silence, Lebedev had asked Lyubov Mihaylovna to rewrite his apartment.

Katya also showed she was afraid of everything more than anything … Uncle Sergeja. "All this is not true," she exclaimed today. "I was mostly afraid of my grandfather."

As a result, the urban apartment was not rewritten by Lebedev. He's still idle and dirty. And Sergei himself was to blame for everything.

"In December 2013, I was attacked. They tried to remove the flash drive from the record, "Sergey continues. "He kidnapped my old car and the same grandfather Chevrolet. I got into the hospital with a fractured skull. Only a few days later I reached out to the nurse and called 02. But the officers who came to find the case denied me. "

Meanwhile, Sergei Lebedev himself was charged with committing a crime against Nikolay Maluchshin under Art. 127, Part 1 ("Unlawful Deprivation of liberty"), Art. 161, Part 1 ("Robbery"), Art. 163, Part 2 ("Extortion").

The main witness of the charge was his mother, Lyubov Mihaylovna. And Katie's testimony of rape was not even heard in the process.

The city court in Rebed sentenced him to four years in prison. "Do you know what is most incredible in this story? "continues my interlocutor. "When I found myself in the IC, the local criminal authorities examined my case and decided that I was right in protecting my niece's honor."

For good behavior the punishment was replaced with a softer one. Going out into the wild, Sergei learned that Katya was no longer home, Grandpa Cole returned from Kizilar and sold his only home.

Return of the prodigal grandfather

"That's right," Katya sighed. "Since my grandfather was sent to Kizilar, my grandmother was drinking a lot, blaming me and my uncle for everything. In 2016 she died. "

Katja herself somehow completed school and lived with her boyfriend. Of the property, she had only their old house, a large, two-storey house, where they lived with her grandmother, it was recorded only to Katya. Sister Nastya as an orphaned grandfather tortured an apartment in the center.

"My grandfather came back, this time he needed me to sell my house and give him the money," says Katya. "I do not know why I did it…" I listened again. But he won. Uncle Sergei was in jail. I was so scared I would not be able to get rid of him that he would continue torturing me that he had signed everything he wanted. "

The house went for two million or more. Part of the money that Nicholas spends on buying cars. For the rest, Kate promised to buy a house in the Stavropol district, which she would bequeath if she went with him to a new location. Nothing personal – just help choose a house.

They went to three. He, she and her baby. By the time Katya was born the firstborn, she married. Not for threats, not for shooting, but she went along with her abuser. The husband knew nothing of the past. For him it was in the order of things – after all Katya left with no one but with a loved one. "I stayed there for a month while preparing the real estate documents. Part of the money my grandfather had spent is 750,000. Throughout this month he did not leave me alone. I stopped, but I still did not have 14! Finally, after signing the contract, she escaped. "

She wrote a statement to her grandfather that he deceptively deprived her of a home, but was denied a criminal case. At the same time, she repeated that she had been raped as a child. She was already old, she finally managed to act on her own – but this investigation was delayed again. Otherwise, maybe there may be questions: Where is her previous statement, why did not he go? Three times Katya tried to pass the law, but the law never heard him.

After his release, Sergei Lebedev returned to nothing. "Kate and I did not help and ruin my life. Being behind bars for the first time in forty years … I thought I would not stand and I would not believe if I'd said earlier that people would be more just in jail than they would be in the wild, he today.

Habitual hell for Russian women

Историята на Кейти Б. стана известна благодарение на публикация в Интернет, написана от Анна Левченко, ръководител на всеруското движение „Проход Педофил”. В портфолиото му има хиляди подобни случаи, но все пак този, Свердловск, се откроява от общия ред. Неговата откровена безнаказаност или нещо подобно …

„Катя получи три отказа от наказателно дело за изнасилване. Следователи ссылались на самую первую бумагу, которую она подписала в 17 лет, — о примирении сторон. Хотя очевидно, что травмированная девочка не понимала, что подписывает», — уверена Анна Левченко. По ее мнению, это полный беспредел. «На данный момент та бумага уже не имеет никакого значения. Чтобы возбудить дело, достаточно заявления, которое Катя написала уже взрослой. Тем более имеется видео очевидного насилия и сроки давности не прошли».

Как правило, если брать истории с семейной педофилией, то все они длятся долго, нередко годами, десятилетиями. Один раз случилось, значит, будет продолжаться впредь. Очень часто жертвы молчат, пока не станут взрослыми.

Насильник запугивает жертву, психологически ломает ее. Многие считают происходящее нормой. Что мир, где добрый дедушка во время прогулки «по грибы» насилует любимую внучку, — это в порядке вещей.

«В российской глубинке, к сожалению, правоохранительные органы не всегда готовы разбираться в хитросплетениях, касающихся сексуального насилия над детьми внутри семьи. Когда появляется человек, готовый спасти ребенка, он сперва пытается достичь этого законным, правовым образом — но, как правило, обламывается, — продолжает Анна Левченко. — В нашем случае дядя Сережа тоже написал кучу заявлений в правоохранительные органы. То, что произошло, с видеозаписью и дракой, скорее было жестом отчаяния. Мужчиной двигало желание защитить племянницу, в итоге он пострадал сам. А постыдное видео даже не приобщили к материалам дела, хотя это и незаконно».

Слишком многое должно сложиться, чтобы жертва не побоялась дать показания. «Без законного представителя ребенок не может обратиться в правоохранительные органы, даже если сам этого захочет», — возмущается Анна Левченко.

Только недавно они завершили кейс в Нижнем Новгороде. Родной отец насиловал дочку с пяти лет. Она призналась в этом в 21. «Отца закрыли в течение пяти дней. Когда детям с детства внушают, что защиты ждать неоткуда, они перестают надеяться и во всем винят только себя, что это они плохие», — продолжает Анна. Тот же папа пятилетней дочери укорял ее, что будто бы она сама его домогалась. «Он так ей и говорил: это же ты по мне ползала! Ты ко мне приставала! В пять лет!!!» Развратникам и извращенцам нужно как-то примириться с тем, что они уроды и мрази, поэтому они и придумывают сказочку себе в оправдание».

«Я бы даже не сказала, что Катин дед — настоящий педофил, все-таки педофилы стараются проявить к своим жертвам некую любовь, объяснить им и себе, что то, что происходит между ними, это чувства. Здесь же было обычное грубое насилие, насильник выбрал именно эту девочку, потому что она была полностью от него зависима», — считает Левченко.

«Необходимо всеми силами и средствами сделать так, чтобы этот человек как можно скорее был привлечен к ответственности. Теперь есть все шансы, чтобы он сел надолго, как, впрочем, должно было случиться давно».

Для Сергея Лебедева добиться своей реабилитации — тоже дело чести. Собственно говоря, ради этого он и уговорил Катю, уже маму двоих малышей, разворошить прошлое. Лебедев обивает пороги правоохранительных органов, правозащитников, местных СМИ…

В конце прошлого года Сергей доехал до Ставрополья, нашел дом, в котором проживал дед — по документам тот действительно был оформлен на Катю. «Николай был пьян, хотя раньше старался сдерживаться. Я выгнал его вон, сходил к участковому, к главе сельсовета, рассказал, что у них в селе живет педофил. После этого он покинул эти места. Говорили, что уехал куда-то к родственникам, на Северный Кавказ, где он и что с ним, я не знаю… Я хочу добиться своего оправдания и чтобы насильник получил по заслугам».

А Катя с семьей все еще ютится на съемной квартире в родной Ревде. Отношений с дедом она не поддерживает. Где он находится сейчас — не знает.

«Я про себя думаю: «Лучше бы ты умер, если не можешь ответить за то, что совершил», — рубит она сплеча. С единственной сестрой Настей отношения не клеятся. Та не верит, что все происходившее с Катей было на самом деле. Для нее дед Коля (или все-таки отец?) — самый лучший на свете человек. «Да, она также видела запись, но сначала сказала, что это не я, потом — что это неправда, а в конце концов, когда я приперла ее к стенке доказательствами, заявила просто и безжалостно: «Раз было, значит, ты сама этого захотела».

Лилия МИХАЙЛОВА, клинический психолог:

Думаю, что девочка была невольным свидетелем насилия над матерью, хотя, возможно, она этого и не помнит. В любом случае психологию жертвы дочь переняла от мамы, на протяжении многих лет насилуемой отчимом.

Насильник Николай изначально выбрал данную семью как способ удовлетворения своих извращенных потребностей. Подчинив своей воле алкоголезависимую супругу, он стал полноправным хозяином над женской половиной семьи, унижая и смеясь над бессилием мужской.

Девочка выросла в семье с инцестом и стала его продолжением.

Винить насильника — это одно, но молчаливая соучастница происходящего была бабушка-мать. Каждая мать, бабушка, тетя (женщина) знает, что в ее доме сожительствуют с малолетними. Это невозможно скрыть внутри семьи.

По сути, Катерина и ее дядя в одиночку боролись с извращенным, высоко приспосабливаемым и социально выживаемым дедом-отчимом. Восстанавливая справедливость, Катя проходит сейчас психотерапевтический этап жизни. Для нее очень важно, чтобы насильника признали виновным. Только когда все встанет на свои места, жизненный цикл инцеста прервется и перестанет влиять на судьбу семьи.

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